Plainly Speaking
 with Karl J. Forehand

 

 

 

Where is the Lord?

by Karl J. Forehand

 

Now on the first day of the week Mary Magdalene came early to the tomb, while it was still dark, and saw the stone already taken away from the tomb.  And so she ran and came to Simon Peter, and to the other disciple whom Jesus loved, and said to them, "They have taken away the Lord out of the tomb, and we do not know where they have laid Him."  (John 20:1-2)

 

  Does God ever seem to get lost in your life?  Does it ever seem like He is not where He is supposed to be?  At this time, Jesus was exactly where He was supposed to be – the disciples simply forgot where He was.  We often do that – we don’t take God literally – we become too focused on prevailing circumstances – and we, literally, lose God in the shuffle. 

 

  I believe the situation is worse for us.  Not only do we lose God in our busy lives; but it really doesn’t seem to bother us.  We say, in our minds, “I’ll get to that latter – I’ll deal with that on Sunday.”  Because we have lost the awe and urgency of the empty tomb, we don’t react properly our broken relationship with our Lord. 

 

  I want to look closely at four things Mary did that can teach us how to react to losing the closeness of God in our lives.

 

1.  She went running to find Him.

 

  Because she found the empty tomb, she said “I can’t find Him” and went running after Him.  Notice the urgency in her actions.  There was a deep need to know where He had been moved to.  All of her other “to dos” were off for the day, until she could find the Lord.

 

  We often find ourselves apart from God and thinking “Oh well, I’ll eventually get it straightened out.  Mary knew how to “hunger and thirst” for righteousness.  Deuteronomy 4:29 says, “But from there you will seek the Lord your God, and you will find Him if you search for Him will all your heart and all your soul.” 

 

  Mary ran to find the Lord – we often meander after God.

 

2.  She was weeping because she couldn’t find Him.

 

But Mary was standing outside the tomb weeping; and so, as she wept, she stooped and looked into the tomb;  and she beheld two angels in white sitting, one at the head, and one at the feet, where the body of Jesus had been lying.  And they said to her, "Woman, why are you weeping?" She said to them, "Because they have taken away my Lord, and I do not know where they have laid Him."

   

  What are the things that bring you to tears?  What causes us to weep tells us a lot about what we value.  Do you often week over not getting your way?  Do you pout because someone insults or wrongs you?  Do you despair over unrealized goals?  What are you distressed most about?

 

  It should hurt us when we are out of fellowship with the Lord?  But, often, we are the most apathetic about our most important relationships.  We assume, they will always be there, so we don’t give them the attention they deserve.  We often neglect our families.  We can’t afford to be apathetic about our most important relationship with the Lord.

 

  Mary was weeping – we are often apathetic.

 

3.  She was asking to find answers.

 

  When she had said this, she turned around, and beheld Jesus standing there, and did not know that it was Jesus.  Jesus said to her, "Woman, why are you weeping? Whom are you seeking?" Supposing Him to be the gardener, she said to Him, "Sir, if you have carried Him away, tell me where you have laid Him, and I will take Him away. (John 20:14-15).

 

  We are easily discouraged with spiritual things; but Mary kept asking.  Listen to the words of wisdom from Solomon:

 

Make your ear attentive to wisdom, Incline your heart to understanding;  For if you cry for discernment, Lift your voice for understanding;  If you seek her as silver, And search for her as for hidden treasures;  Then you will discern the fear of the LORD, And discover the knowledge of God.  (Proverbs 2:2-5)

 

  We cannot afford to accept easy, pad answers to complex problems.  We often say, “I’m sure there is an explanation.”  The next time your boss says, “Where is that report?” tell him “I’m sure it is somewhere.”  When he says “Why aren’t you ever on time?” try saying “I’m sure there’s an explanation.”  How would he respond to that type commitment.

 

  We must be committed to finding wisdom, understanding and discernment.  It doesn’t just land in your lap – you have to cry out for it – you have to seek it – you have to want it!  Mary insisted that she was going to keep searching until she found some answers.  Are you that committed.

 

  Mary was asking – we are often uncommitted.

 

4.  She was clinging when she found Him

 

Jesus said to her, "Mary!" She turned and said to Him in Hebrew, "Rabboni!" (which means, Teacher).  Jesus said to her, "Stop clinging to Me, for I have not yet ascended to the Father; but go to My brethren, and say to them, 'I ascend to My Father and your Father, and My God and your God.'"  (John 20:16-17)

 

  If you have truly been in the presence of the Lord, you generally don’t want to leave it.  It is one reason we do so many silly things with rituals – because we want to recreate the experience we once had in the presence of the Lord.  Mary was clinging to the Lord because she knew He was the source.  The New Testament give us a simple word for clinging – abiding.  We have to learn to abide in Christ.  Once we draw near to Him, we need to stay there.  We need to abide.

 

  Is your relationship with the Lord what it should be.  If not are you:

-         running to find it again?

-         crying over the loss?

-         asking, seeking and knocking to find it?

-         clinging when you find it?

 

 

 

 

                                               Karl J. Forehand, 2002

 

                                                                                                                                        

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