Plainly Speaking
 with Karl J. Forehand

 

 

Don’t Fake Yourself Out – Part 3

(Sharing the Word)

(James 1:26-27)

by Karl J. Forehand

 

If anyone thinks himself to be religious, and yet does not bridle his tongue but deceives his own heart, this man's religion is worthless.  This is pure and undefiled religion in the sight of our God and Father, to visit orphans and widows in their distress, and to keep oneself unstained by the world.  (James 1:26-27)

 

  The word religious means “an outward practice in the service of God.”  After receiving the word, we can’t just start doing anything.  We must let God examine us, then restore us and ultimately transform us.  As this happens, the natural by-product should be sharing the Word.  We receive – we are changed by it and we should share it.  I hope you resist the temptation to focus on only evangelism.  There are many more areas of ministry and service besides evangelism.  Evangelism undoubtedly is the main one, but it is not the only one.

 

  Religion is not just going to church, dressing up on Sunday and being somewhat good.  It is not even just someone that owns and reads their Bible.  True religion is sharing what God has done in you.  A common mistake churches make is to transform their preferences into practices and call them religion. 

 

  True religion is serving others (on the outside) because of what God has done on the inside.  How can we do that?

 

1.  Speak truthfully to your heart.

 

  This passage says not to “deceive” our own heart.  Many times we try to justify the inconsistencies of our internal decisions and end up deceiving ourselves.  Often we create religious exercises to pacify our physical desires because our inner life is in turmoil.  Why does James mention the tongue in this passage?  Because once our mouth gets in gear, it is very hard to speak honestly to our hearts.

 

  You can’t really be a good spouse until you can stand to be alone with yourself.  Speaking truthfully to your heart affects your parenting, your service and your careers.  We have to have honest conversations with God and others and not deceive our own hearts.

 

2.  Serve those in distress

 

  We must take our transformed lives to those that need in most.  Most churches spend the bulk of their ministry ministering to church members that complain the most.  We must take our hope to those that are most desperate for it.  Jesus set us that example (Luke 4:18)

 

  Religion is not about what kind of service we have inside – it is about how we serve others on the outside.  Religion is not about how fantastic our building looks – it is about how solid our real foundation is.  It is not about whether we have an impressive altar – it is about how often we kneel at the feet of Jesus.  Religion is not about how well we dress – it is about whether we washed in the blood of the lamb, clothed in righteousness and walking in newness of life. 

 

3.  Stay unstained by the world

 

  John 17 tells us to be “in the world,” but not to be “of the world.”  Romans 12 tells us not to be “conformed” to the patterns of the world.  Jesus gave a perfect example of this.  He went to marriage feasts – He was a friend of sinners, yet He remained unblemished.  Lot, on the other hand, pitched his tent toward Sodom.  He eventually moved into Sodom and later Sodom moved into him. 

 

  I believe we have to learn to make covenants.  Teenagers could say, “I’m not going to let anyone convince me of what is right – I’m going to do what truly IS right.”  Adults may say, “I’m not going to bow to office pressure or community politics – I’m going to do what God says is right.”  The church could say, “We are going to stand firm on the Word of God, whether it is seemingly beneficial or not.”  Parents could covenant, “I’m going to be a parent first and a buddy second.”

 

  Real ministry (and religion) begins when we speak honestly to our hearts.  It becomes active when we focus on those that need it most.  It survives when WE stay unblemished by the world.

 

 

 

Karl J. Forehand, 2002

 

 

 

                                                                                                                                        

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